This is both funny and sad at the same time.

A bride checking her cellphone in the middle of her wedding ceremony — caught on YouTube.  And it’s no joke.

Look at the face of the dismayed husband to be.  Could he be worried about the wedding night as well?  Let’s not even go there.

Even if you do not abuse texting and social media connections, you can be sure there are people around you who do.

We can read “how to” books on happiness but it’s harder to be happy when these great digital tools we have take over our lives.

I was driving on Interstate 295 in New Jersey today in rush hour traffic observing many drivers face down into their cellphones while going 55 to 65 miles per hour.

Do not reject digital technology.

Take control of it.

• Set limits on when and where you will make and accept text messages, emails or social media connections.  And stick to it.
• Ban digital from dinner, have face time with people important to you and private moments away from digital availability.
• Focus on faces – look into the eyes of those you are with. 
• New rule:  anyone who is worthy of your time, gets 100% of your focus without distraction.  You decide who is worth this attention.  You can always catch up with your digital life later.  Maybe parents should rethink checking their cellphones at dinner with their children.

Just as the best marriages have togetherness and time apart in some kind of balance, our digital lives get better when we work at spending time away from devices.

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