The Blame Game

  • Young people especially seem to feel that when something is wrong, it is their fault.
  • Amazing how when things are bad, we are programmed to blame ourselves but when things go well, we shake it off.
  • Blame is useless – it doesn’t work when directed at others no matter how merited one thinks it is and it is among the most dangerous things we can do to ourselves.
  • When things go wrong, fix them and when they go right repeat them over and over on a recurring loop in your brain.
  • Blaming does not motivate anyone to be better.