No one ever suffered from not getting their way – often, it leads to better things and sometimes by letting go, it comes to you.

So how do we get there?

1. Choose a day and try to give up having it your way as many times as possible – you have ultimate control of the situations, just look for opportunities to see what happens.
2. No quid pro quos – don’t give something up as part of a deal to get something else because this is all about letting go of having to have so many things your way.
3. Observe how happy you can make others and how powerful you actually feel once you make the decision on what to give up.

Not getting everything you want doesn’t mean not getting anything you want —  it actually helps you focus on what’s important.