As much as you want to forget hurt, don’t.
You run the risk of accepting insults every time you avoid them.
An insult is a veiled compliment – take it as such.
Resist the temptation to react – that’s exactly what a person armed with insults wants you to do. Resorting to insults will not make you happier.
Also, don’t believe a word – it’s pretty sad when we start taking to heart someone who doesn’t have one.
Remove yourself from situations where people hurl insults (and if it’s at work and you can’t avoid it, seriously start looking for a better work environment).
Admit it hurts, but don’t accept the insult.
The best way to repair hurt feelings is to remind yourself about the fine person you are and consider the source.
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