Being compatible is not the key ingredient to a happy relationship.
Seeking out a kind person is according to a new study by Michigan State of 2,500 couples who have been married about 20 years.
Who knew? Certainly not online dating apps that aim for bringing people together based on what they have in common.
Instead of “what do we have in common” it is “are they a nice person”.
Shared interests, personality traits and similar interests had little to no impact on relationship happiness.
As it turns out we’re looking in the wrong place for the right partner.
Compatibility is not what makes the heart grow fonder, it’s making a life with a kind person.
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