Fans standing by a track as runners race to the finish line scream words of encouragement along with their cheers.
Even horses get loud positive reinforcement at race tracks – and we’ve even got our money on them.
But this is not how we encourage each other or for that matter ourselves.
Instead we offer words of advice, caution – sometimes fear to get us and those around us over the finish line.
If no one ever gave another word of advice again, it probably would be an improvement if those words were replaced with 100% full vocal encouragement.
Support, confidence and hope are more effective than even well-meaning advice, added pressure and fear.
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