Don’t listen to criticism.
Don’t read reviews.
No one ever benefits from criticism — not even the person giving it.
When you are the target of unwanted criticism, you become less effective, less confident, more stressed.
Ignore criticism if you can.
When forced to acknowledge it (say, at work), admit to hearing it but don’t dignify criticism of you any further by entering into a conversation.
Criticism makes us feel needy – resist it with whatever it takes.
Doing better and learning from so-called “constructive” criticism are two opposite things.
Even if criticism brings about change out of fear, it will not be long lasting.
The place for criticism is out of your mind.
The place for self-improvement is to use your mind on your own.
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